Implant Dentistry Daily: Swallowing Your Pride
- Andre Chen

- Jun 8
- 3 min read
There are days in implant dentistry when everything goes according to plan.
And then there are days when biology reminds us who is really in charge.
Today was one of those days.
The case seemed straightforward. A patient presented for the placement of two implants in the mandibular first molar area. Because of the available mesio-distal space, the restorative plan was to replace the missing molar with two premolar-sized crowns rather than creating an oversized restoration. Prosthetically, it was a sound decision.
The CBCT, however, revealed a surprise.
A small root fragment had remained after a previous extraction. Around that fragment, a localized bony cavity had developed. The coronal portion had healed and ossified, effectively hiding the problem beneath what appeared to be a healed ridge.
The plan changed immediately. First, place one implant. Then remove the fragment, debride the cavity and place the second implant.
What followed was one of those surgeries where every step seemed to require twice the effort.
The inflamed tissue made anesthesia difficult. Additional regional anesthesia became necessary. The fragment itself was so small that direct visualization was impossible. An intraoperative CBCT was required to confirm its position. Eventually, after modifying the access and changing instruments, the fragment was finally removed.
At that moment, I genuinely believed the difficult part was over.
I was wrong.
When I began preparing the implant site, it became evident that the remaining bone was simply too soft. A narrow implant failed to achieve primary stability. A wider implant was selected. Still no stability. Despite every effort to engage the available apical bone, the implant could not obtain the level of fixation required for a predictable outcome.
At some point during surgery, there is a moment when experience and ego start arguing with each other.
The ego says:
"Just keep going." "Try a wider implant." "Try a longer implant." "The patient wants this finished today." "You've already come this far."
Experience says something different.
Experience says:
"Stop." And that is exactly what I did. The site was protected with collagen sponges.
The flap was sutured. The surgery was finished. Technically, that was the easy part.
The difficult part came afterwards. Walking into the consultation room.
Sitting down with the patient. Looking him in the eyes.
And explaining that we had not completed what we had both hoped to complete that day.
As clinicians, we do not like these conversations.
We spend years studying, training and refining our skills. We want solutions. We want results. We want to help our patients. Most of all, we want to finish what we started.
There is a certain pride that comes with being able to solve problems.
And there is a certain pain that comes with admitting that, today, the problem was not solved.
Not because we did not try.
Not because we did not know what to do.
But because biology simply refused to cooperate.
The truth is that the hardest instrument to swallow in surgery is not a broken drill.
It is your own pride.
Because in that moment you must tell a patient:
"I know what the treatment plan was." "I know what we expected to achieve." "I know you wanted this finished today." "But I am not going to place an implant that I do not believe will succeed."
There is no applause for that decision.
No impressive postoperative photograph.
No lecture slide.
No social media post.
Just honesty.........
And honesty can be uncomfortable.
Fortunately, the patient understood.
He appreciated the explanation.
He appreciated the transparency.
And he accepted the decision.
Walking out of the room, I realized something important.
The surgery had not gone according to plan.
But perhaps the most important part of the treatment had.
Because trust is not built when everything goes perfectly.
Trust is built when things do not go perfectly and we are honest enough to admit it.
In two months, we will return.
The bone will hopefully be more mature.
The implant will likely be placed under far more favorable conditions.
The case will continue.
Today was not a failure.
It was simply a reminder that implant dentistry is not about winning every battle.
It is about having the wisdom to retreat when necessary so that you can ultimately win the war.
This is Implant Dentistry Daily.
No filters.
No perfect cases.
Just the reality that sometimes the most difficult procedure in implant dentistry is not placing an implant.
It is sitting down with a patient afterwards and swallowing your pride.

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